Submissives / Subs / Slaves

The following are short excerts from articles found through out the web. follow the “read more” to read the whole article. There will be more and more added in the futur.

Advice For The Submissive

M/many involved in the BDSM lifestyle have been introduced to it through the Internet and online chat rooms. Online can be very intense and very special. It can also lead to great harm to many, just as realtime relationships can be quite intense and special and for others just as harmful. The possible harm in the online world is mainly emotional harm, though physical harm can happen when a submissive follows directions from one who claims to be a Dominant who is either uneducated or not a dominant at all, but a player.

To Catch A Dom

Happy New Year, Happy New Century and Happy Millennium–or not, depending on your point of view. Glad to see that the Y2K bug didn’t get you.

i’m not really fond of New Year’s, other than that it’s a paid holiday from work. There is just too much pressure associated with it. Everybody going around asking “what’s your New Year’s resolution this year?” or “have you made your New Year’s resolutions yet?” No, and i don’t intend to. Go ahead, call me a lazy jerk. i prefer to look at it more like: i don’t need to, but obviously you think you do. Okay, so maybe that is a little arrogant, but all this resolution stuff gets me cranky.

Submissive Frenzies

Submissive Frenzies are a state or condition that many if not all submissives will experience at one time or another. Many aspects of BDSM are similar to addictions in how they play out in the mind. From that perspective the Frenzies can be considered to be the ‘withdrawal’ stage. The peculiar thing about this is that a submissive need not ever have engaged in a real life D/s BDSM experience to actually go into this state of need. Generally the very first experience a submissive will have will be prior to ever engaging in a real life D/s event. Many submissives can chronicle a ‘longing’ or unspecified ‘need’ which may have begun when they were quite little. This sensation was always present though generally unacknowledged or openly reviewed. In many cases the submissive was not able to identify the source of this sensation. It simply made them restless and on occasion subject to frustrated outbursts.

 

Submission, All Or Nothing?

his was prompted by the discussions I see between people trying to define just what submission is. It’s a stumper of an issue, no doubt. Some people feel that limits have no place in submission, others think that having no limits is dangerous at best, and insane at worst. Some feel that there should be no holding back in submission. Others believe that they can submit in some areas, and not in others.

Training Every Sub/Slave Needs

Every Master has different needs, wants and or desires. Here is where your focus needs to be. If you want to be the perfect pet, paying attention is your first step. Sometimes in life its the little touches that tell someone you care. If you stop for a moment and consider why you got into this life, it was probably to feel that complete connection to another human being. For most of us the kinky sex is just a bonus!!! Seriously, you can’t be a slave unless you WANT to serve. Some refer to it as a burning in the belly. Back to paying attention though. Each Master is different and their needs are as diverse as the colors of a rainbow. As he talks, you learn. Doesn’t that sound simple?